Selasa, 02 Juli 2013

Child Always See Their Parent Did Wrong

"Children begin by loving their children. As they grow older, they judge them. Sometimes they forgive them"
-Writer Oscar Wilder

Quote above is gotten by me in Criminal Mind serial movie, episode 10th season 6th. I think it's true.
Because I see my brother always judge my mother. Sometimes, he only see my mother does wrong.
He told me, and I also see in his perspective too. Then, I'll think that she's wrong too.
But now I know why I see she did wrong, that is because I think I'm smarter than her and I only see from the negative side maybe it's a part of our development. I hope my brother will realize it too. Because, when his son getting older, he will be judged by his son, like he did to our mother. But maybe that was happend to my grandparents, they were judged by my mom.
Btw, it's like cycle which happen to parent and their child. Oya, I hope my mother realized to that is usuall if child judge their parent, that happen in entire world. I hope she can understand that is a part of her child's development.
So that both of them will understand each other. Like I did, NOW.