Child Always See Their Parent Did Wrong

"Children begin by loving their children. As they grow older, they judge them. Sometimes they forgive them"
-Writer Oscar Wilder

Quote above is gotten by me in Criminal Mind serial movie, episode 10th season 6th. I think it's true.
Because I see my brother always judge my mother. Sometimes, he only see my mother does wrong.
He told me, and I also see in his perspective too. Then, I'll think that she's wrong too.
But now I know why I see she did wrong, that is because I think I'm smarter than her and I only see from the negative side maybe it's a part of our development. I hope my brother will realize it too. Because, when his son getting older, he will be judged by his son, like he did to our mother. But maybe that was happend to my grandparents, they were judged by my mom.
Btw, it's like cycle which happen to parent and their child. Oya, I hope my mother realized to that is usuall if child judge their parent, that happen in entire world. I hope she can understand that is a part of her child's development.
So that both of them will understand each other. Like I did, NOW.

the way you through new years' eve : burning books

There are many way to celebrate new year's. I choosed to pass it with my family in my sister's house, grilled some fish, invited our relation, chatted together, watched great fireworks, and thanked to God. It was great for me. but, how about other people did to through their new year's eve ?

At 9pm I  and my mother went home, it's about 15minute from our party. I saw the road more quite than the usual. There were durian seller who was hoping their durians would be bought. Then, I arrived at home. I saw my neighbor burn something, I guessed it was a fish, like we did. My mother say hi to her, and asked what she was doing. She said that she was burning books of her late husband. Her son was working, and her daughter was going with their little family.

None of the daughters cared about their mom and we can't blame them. Perhaps, they wanted a moment for their little family. But I thought, there will be better for every one if we can through happy hour with people who love us and we love.